Becoming My Stronger Me

The Builder, the Bruiser, and the Bystander

Nassim Season 2 Episode 64

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Every adult in youth sports leaves a lasting impact—whether they mean to or not.

In this episode, I'm inspired by Garry Linton's instagram post (@takeflightcoach) to break down the three types of adults youth athletes encounter: the Builder, the Bruiser, and the Bystander. Through real-life coaching and parenting examples, I explore how each role shapes a child’s development—on the field and far beyond it.

You’ll learn:

  • How Builders create safe, growth-focused environments
  • How Bruisers let ego and outcomes outweigh development
  • How Bystanders, though quiet, still send powerful messages
  • And how to reflect and shift your own approach, whether you're a coach, parent, or a leader in youth sports

This episode is a must-listen for anyone invested in youth sports—and ready to show up with more intention.

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